Cocktease Phonesex Mistress

I had an awesome tease and denial phone sex call the other night…

My submissive caller was one who had called once before. It seemed that he was kept in long distance chastity by another Mistress. Once in a great while, on her whim, he was allowed to take off his chastity device and to call another phone sex Mistress.  The Mistress in question, like myself, would be skilled in tease and denial. I would, during the course of the call, get my little caller incredibly excited, and then I would decide if I wanted to let him cum or not.

My caller was on a chair with one hand hand-cuffed. The other hand left free to stroke. The key was buried in an ice block that would take hours to thaw. Once I toyed with him for a while, I could decide if I wanted to let him cum, or if I wanted him to hand-cuff his stroking hand.

Lady Sascha is a Cock Tease Mistress

Twice he has called me now. Twice I have teased him, gotten him so hard he was about to explode. Twice I have denied him. Both times he ended up crying out of frustration while I was laughing at him.

Perhaps if he calls me a third time? Well who knows? They do say the third time’s the charm…

Are you into tease and denial? If so you can give me a call on my direct dial line.

I can’t believe it’s been over a month since I’ve written in My Cocktease Phone Sex blog!

I just wanted to say thanks for all the Holiday presents and good wishes all my phonesex callers have sent me over the last month. It’s been a very busy month! I’ve taken domination calls on a limited basis only, as my own little submissive pet has been taking a lot of vacation time with me this last month.

Lady Sascha is Glad to be Back Home

But now it is time to get into the swing of the New Year, and start teasing and denying and torturing more submissive ass… And I am looking forward to it.

If you are a new caller for my direct dial line, write me at ladysascha@gmail.com and ask me about a New Year’s Deal.

Hope to hear from you soon!

My apologies to everyone that clicked on the link to this post and got nothing..

It seems that I was in such a hurry to pack for San Francisco I totally forgot to hit “publish” in Wordpress and so only I could see the post. But I am back now, and taking calls – I will talk a bit more about my trip in a future post.

Niteflirt is still down for the moment but I am taking calls on my no-taboo direct dial line. The number is 1-888-734-2872 and here are my terms:

So anyway, here is the post I wrote last week before leaving. And yes I did do a lot of tease and denial with my pet and also strange men. And yes I did cuckold my pet.. Oh and I bought a sweet little strapless cocktail dress in a vintage store, and I will model it with some seamed stockings for some hot little pics soon =)

To all my little phone sex pets:

I am leaving tonight on a plane to San Francisco with my own real life submissive. We’re planning on driving up and down the coast for a couple of days and visiting the Napa Valley as well as the Sonoma Wine country – taste testing our way through the region =)

I should be back taking calls by Tuesday at the latest – my pet was given a few days off unexpectedly and so he has a buddy that’s flying us down there and back.

Of course I will be wearing little sundresses, and shorts that show off my legs, and we’ll be in the water a lot as well, so I’ll be wearing a little swimsuit..

Lady Sascha in a Swimsuit

I will return tanned and rested, and full of naughty stories of how I teased and denied men in nightclubs, men by the pool, men on wine tours..

And if I find the right man, I might even do a bit of cuckolding with my pet..

Until next week..

In a post on my Cuckold and Humiliation Phone Sex blog, I listed several things that I like to do to with a submissive’s tight blue balls, after I have been teasing and denying them for a while. They are as follows:

• Digging my long fingernails into them
• Scratching them with my fingernails
• Running the Wartenburg wheel over them,
• Writing I <3 Sascha on them with a Bic pen
• Dripping hot candle wax on them
• Harding the wax with the bag of frozen peas
• Flogging the hardened wax off with My flogger
• And alternately – licking on those balls, running my silky tongue around and around them, sucking them into my mouth, sucking your cock…Until you are about to explode. But of course you may not cum until I say…

I also like to make my toll-free phone sex callers go on cam and torture and tease their own balls for me.

Here is a picture that dancing pet took of his balls after denying himself for several days, and then edging himself until his balls were nice and tight, and then tying them off. And then of course writing “I <3 Sascha” on them with a Bic pen.

dancing pet tortures his balls for me

I love how I am so easily able to control horny men half-way around the world!

Enjoy giving a Dominant Female that type of control?

Then feel free to give me a call or email me at ladysascha@gmail.com for an appointment.

NB: This is a response to dancing pet’s post about my abilities as a Dominatrix.

This blog post, like every other post on Cocktease Mistress, are my opinions only, and based on my experiences from real life BDSM and from phone domination. I do not profess myself to be an expert in BDSM or D/s. In other words, your mileage may vary =)

I look at a lot of other phone dommes’ sites and ads. Some of those sites that  profess to be Domination-based really kind of amaze me.

These are the women who are all about flouncing around, shrieking at subs, stomping their feet, and braying “It’s all about ME!!!” In other words, 19-going-on-5 years of age with a bad case of spoilt brat. In fact a lot of these ladies even call themselves “brats”.

That’s all well and good, and if that is what you as a phone sex caller get into, go for it. It’s all about amusement value as far as phone sex goes, right? And whatever gets you off.

But it’s not Domination, at least not in my opinion.

Domination is about control. These “brats” can’t even control themselves, much less anyone else.

Domination is about getting into a submissive’s head, inside his or her brain. It’s about gaining their trust, even when they don’t normally trust people. It’s about understanding what makes them tick and using that to push their limits. It’s about allowing a submissive to worship me to the point he’ll do whatever I like.

It’s about making something that is actually pretty hard look almost effortless =)

Domination and submission compose a symbiotic relationship. It’s not about one or the other, but about both. It can be a relationship formed of respect and mutual trust, and one that caters to both the Dominant’s and the submissive’s needs.

I do not raise my voice or lose my temper. I don’t have to. I rarely even have to order a submissive to do something – unless his head is in the place he needs that.. And if I do it, is in a tone that commands respects and harbors no backtalk.

As in just. do. it. now.

Even when I have a submissive in bondage – his hard balls in my hands – even when I have been torturing and edging him for hours, and he looks into my eyes and sees that cold fire inside my head – even when he sees no sympathy for his pain or frustration – even then, I am giving him what he needs.. and in the end, we both know on the other side of that pain, that frustration, is a euphoria that someone who is not into BDSM just doesn’t get.

To me that is what Domination is about… seeing what a submissive needs, and giving it to him. Helping him to that other side of the pain, the frustration, helping him to achieve that euphoric reward.

Just like dancing pet, who at my bidding, sent me a nice little money shot:

Dancing Pet Sends Me a Money Shot

BTW, thank you for that very sweet and heart-felt post you wrote, dancing pet, I do appreciate it

And so to my readers, and possible long-distance subs:

If you like, you can call me and see if I am the right Dominatrix for you. If not, that is fine.

Or you may prefer a stomping screaming spoilt brat who never quite made it past the terrible two’s.

And that is fine too =)

Sexy Valentine Stockings

Come here little pet… that’s right. Crawl to me…

Now strip. Totally.

Lie down at my feet.

Take off one of my shoes. Yesss.

Now rub that foot all over your face.

Rub your hands up and down my leg in its sexy red fishnet stocking.

Now start kissing your way up..

You are hard now, aren’t you little pet?

We wouldn’t want that boner to go to waste, now would we?

Give me a call on my direct dial phonesex line.

Lady Sascha Does Foot Fetish Phonesex

Come here, little pet…

Strip for me.. Now kneel at my feet..

Worship Lady Sascha's Feet

Take one of my cute little size seven feet, caress it lovingly. Run your tongue across each plump little toe. Mmmm yes.. Now suck each toe into your mouth. Lick between my toes and under their soft little pads…

Grab that scented lotion and start massaging it into my foot and then slowly work your way up my leg… Ah yessss…

Now let me tease you. Lie down your back on the rug as I slowly run my foot up and down your body, lightly tracing your erect cock with my toes..

Sound like fun?

Much more where that came from. Give me a call

I have started a new Yahoo group for phone sex domination.
Reasonably enough it is called http://groups.yahoo.com/group/domination_phonesex/ and you are welcome to join if you are a phone dominatrix or anyone who is interested in phone domination.

All I ask is if you are a phone sex operator and wish to post links on my group, is that your service be domination-based and that you charge at least $1.99 a minute.

Lady Sascha Wants to Dominate You

If you are an interested caller-to-be, or just a blog-reader, all I ask is that you be an adult, and not spam the board with nonsense.  Submissives and/or callers-to-be are also welcome to post as well as long as the post is not spamming, in good taste, and not flaming anyone.

I reserve the right to disallow anyone on this group for whatever reason, or to remove them from this group for the same.

I hope to get lots of phone dommes who will offer fetishes such as humiliation, tease and denial, chastity, cuckolding, MILF, ABDL, Mommy fetish, CFNM, body worship, lingerie, breath control, financial domination, and small penis humiliation,  just to name a few off the top of my head

Please let me know if you have any questions about joining or the group itself.

I can be emailed through ladysascha@gmail.com or you can YIM me at beg4sascha.

My little subbie….
Oh so much fun in real life…
I have him hung from the I-beam of my playroom by his bound hands.
Naked, shivering, afraid, yet excited, his legs spread apart by a bar.
I stand in front of him in my thigh high boots and latex skirt and bodice, a crop in my hand.
And I gently, almost lovingly, stroke up and down the front of his naked body with said crop, watching the magic of his burgeoning erection, that has yet to amaze me, how men can do that, in spite of themselves…. in spite of their fear and their reticence. 
I lean close, so close he can not only smell my perfume, but also my excitement, and whisper to him that he is mine, no matter what he protests. I can do with him whatever I want, and he knows that for a fact…
I start to lick and then nibble on him, a tiny vampirish bite at a time…. first his ear and then down his neck to his shoulder, and then to his nipple, now greedily sucking, now biting and pulling… my gloved hand lightly stroking his cock, just with my finger and thumb. Then one finger trailing from his hard balls, up his now-fully-erect cock, and lightly tracing around the head, much as I would around the rim of a wine absent-mindedly while conversing with a friend in front of the fire.
I straighten up, and make him watch as I slowly unzip my bodice, revealing small but perfectly shaped breasts, my nipples hard with excitement… I play with them for a moment, teasing both him and me. Then I slowly remove my skirt, wriggling out of it as I pull it down over my full round ass.
He watches, all eyes, while I stand in front of him, so close as to feel his fevered panting, and slowly put my hand down inside my black silk panties. He watches the outline of my fingers as I use them to tease my clit and pussy.
My other hand is still lightly tracing up and down his cock, over his balls, up and down his belly and between his thighs, teasing, always teasing. I know him well enough to gauge how close to push him to the edge, but even so, he is now shaking, wanting so badly to thrust at my hand with his leaking member, yet knowing that is not allowed.
I pull my dripping fingers out of my panties, and rub them under his nose, then pop them into his mouth for him to suck greedily. He moans, and then begs me to put him out of his misery.
Not quite yet, my little poppet. Not for a long while yet. I have a lot more teasing and denial in store for you.
I then pull off my wet panties and wrap them around his cock, squeezing the damp silk around the shaft as I slowly stroke him up and down.
I put said silk-wrapped cock between my legs, right up against my full engorged pussy lips, as I rub my hardened nipples against his chest, and grind myself into him.
And then the real fun begins….