A question i find i am asking myself is what faculties would i look for in a Domme?

By dancing pet On May 11th, 2009

As a male sub, what would be the characteristics of an ideal female Domme? Would it be one that trusses me up and pegs me before i’ve had chance to remember Her name or a Domme that encourages me to submit to Her by encouragement; letting me stretch my boundaries at my own pace?

The relationship a sub has with a Domme needs to be one of shared trust, as a newcomer to the scene i was fortunate to find an exceptional Domme to lead me by the hand, everything i had seen up until meeting Lady Sascha indicated a bias towards either financial domination or pegging and pain being inflicted on the sub in what seems tantamount to misandrony which was rather off putting and the stuff of nightmares for a novice like me. Knowing that being submissive was a concept i was comfortable with but not the kind of domination i had seen on offer, i thought i was likely to only find my D/s experience in erotic fiction.
That was until i found Lady Sascha and not in the way you’d expect, initially it was with my wide eyed innocence, that i found Her and learned that whilst offering the physical side Lady Sascha was someone who also with words rather than physical action possesses a remarkable ability to get a sub to strectch their own boundaries. Due to physical locations long distance domination by Lady Sascha is my only real option, and also allows me to avoid the rather more painful side of the scene that a real life encounter could result in. All the experiences i’ve enjoyed with Lady Sascha have been amazing.
With a subtle suggestion Lady Sascha can plant the seeds of action in a sub’s brain and get them to perform for Her as if it’s their own idea. Lady Sascha truly is a sensual Domme, her voice once heard will exist in your brain even if some of the time you only see Her words written down. Lady Sascha has even entered my dream state now. After a session that ended with a little self spanking i ended up enjoying a dream about Lady Sascha being my secretary and tying me to a chair before spanking me…

The dream

Spanked by Lady Sascha in My Dream

Spanked by Lady Sascha in My Dream

Lady Sascha is truly the Cocktease Extraordinaire, after a recent late night (for me) session with Lady Sascha which involved a little self spanking i dreamt of Her. In my dream Lady Sascha played my secretary dressed in the archetypal grey pencil skirt and cream blouse, Her hair tied up in a bun. As She took a little dictation in my office what i thought were discreet glances at her stocking clad legs were noticed. Without a trace of emotion in Her voice She stood up to walk around to my side of the desk telling me that i would be reported for sexual harrassment if i had a hard on and if i didn’t already i’d better have one before She left the room. Noticing my tented trousers a smile of satisfaction crossed Her face, and i knew my job was in jeopardy. “Is there anything i can do to stop You filing a complaint?”
“I suppose I could punish you Myself. Naughty boys get punished, and you are a naughty boy aren’t you?”
“Yes, Sascha, i’m a naughty boy.” i replied
“That’s LADY Sascha to you from now on, get it?”
“Yes Sas.. Lady Sascha.”
“Good, now strip!”
“Sorry?”
“If you don’t strip you will be. Now strip!”
That was a voice to be obeyed and i began to discard my clothes, my secret was about to revealed to Her, as my trousers came down Sascha barely suppressed a giggle.
“Leave those on my little panty boy and hand me your belt.”
I removed the belt from my trousers and handed it to Her, “See that chair over there go and get over it on your hands and knees.” As ordered i made my way over to the reception chair, and got down on my hands and knees with my front laid across the seat. There was the unmistakeable sound of tape being drawn off the roll. Sascha taped my arms and legs to the chair legs, telling me to open wide my leather belt was placed in my mouth the reason soon became clear, Lady Sascha pulled my panties down to expose my bottom and i heard a swish then a smack and i bit into the belt in pain. Looking back over my shoulder i saw that She was holding a wooden ruler that was swinging back towards me once more landing on my other bottom cheek. Alternating Sascha applied 6 strokes to each cheek, my bottom felt like it was on fire. Sascha reached round and grabbed my erection, “Seems panty boy enjoyed that. Do you want some more?” Shaking my head “No”
Unfortunately that is where i woke from my dream, the actual pain in my recently spanked bottom when i rolled over in my sleep had awoken me – i hope to revisit this dream very soon.

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