Cocktease Phonesex Mistress

In a post on my Cuckold and Humiliation Phone Sex blog, I listed several things that I like to do to with a submissive’s tight blue balls, after I have been teasing and denying them for a while. They are as follows:

• Digging my long fingernails into them
• Scratching them with my fingernails
• Running the Wartenburg wheel over them,
• Writing I <3 Sascha on them with a Bic pen
• Dripping hot candle wax on them
• Harding the wax with the bag of frozen peas
• Flogging the hardened wax off with My flogger
• And alternately – licking on those balls, running my silky tongue around and around them, sucking them into my mouth, sucking your cock…Until you are about to explode. But of course you may not cum until I say…

I also like to make my toll-free phone sex callers go on cam and torture and tease their own balls for me.

Here is a picture that dancing pet took of his balls after denying himself for several days, and then edging himself until his balls were nice and tight, and then tying them off. And then of course writing “I <3 Sascha” on them with a Bic pen.

dancing pet tortures his balls for me

I love how I am so easily able to control horny men half-way around the world!

Enjoy giving a Dominant Female that type of control?

Then feel free to give me a call or email me at ladysascha@gmail.com for an appointment.

NB: This is a response to dancing pet’s post about my abilities as a Dominatrix.

This blog post, like every other post on Cocktease Mistress, are my opinions only, and based on my experiences from real life BDSM and from phone domination. I do not profess myself to be an expert in BDSM or D/s. In other words, your mileage may vary =)

I look at a lot of other phone dommes’ sites and ads. Some of those sites that  profess to be Domination-based really kind of amaze me.

These are the women who are all about flouncing around, shrieking at subs, stomping their feet, and braying “It’s all about ME!!!” In other words, 19-going-on-5 years of age with a bad case of spoilt brat. In fact a lot of these ladies even call themselves “brats”.

That’s all well and good, and if that is what you as a phone sex caller get into, go for it. It’s all about amusement value as far as phone sex goes, right? And whatever gets you off.

But it’s not Domination, at least not in my opinion.

Domination is about control. These “brats” can’t even control themselves, much less anyone else.

Domination is about getting into a submissive’s head, inside his or her brain. It’s about gaining their trust, even when they don’t normally trust people. It’s about understanding what makes them tick and using that to push their limits. It’s about allowing a submissive to worship me to the point he’ll do whatever I like.

It’s about making something that is actually pretty hard look almost effortless =)

Domination and submission compose a symbiotic relationship. It’s not about one or the other, but about both. It can be a relationship formed of respect and mutual trust, and one that caters to both the Dominant’s and the submissive’s needs.

I do not raise my voice or lose my temper. I don’t have to. I rarely even have to order a submissive to do something – unless his head is in the place he needs that.. And if I do it, is in a tone that commands respects and harbors no backtalk.

As in just. do. it. now.

Even when I have a submissive in bondage – his hard balls in my hands – even when I have been torturing and edging him for hours, and he looks into my eyes and sees that cold fire inside my head – even when he sees no sympathy for his pain or frustration – even then, I am giving him what he needs.. and in the end, we both know on the other side of that pain, that frustration, is a euphoria that someone who is not into BDSM just doesn’t get.

To me that is what Domination is about… seeing what a submissive needs, and giving it to him. Helping him to that other side of the pain, the frustration, helping him to achieve that euphoric reward.

Just like dancing pet, who at my bidding, sent me a nice little money shot:

Dancing Pet Sends Me a Money Shot

BTW, thank you for that very sweet and heart-felt post you wrote, dancing pet, I do appreciate it

And so to my readers, and possible long-distance subs:

If you like, you can call me and see if I am the right Dominatrix for you. If not, that is fine.

Or you may prefer a stomping screaming spoilt brat who never quite made it past the terrible two’s.

And that is fine too =)

As a male sub, what would be the characteristics of an ideal female Domme? Would it be one that trusses me up and pegs me before i’ve had chance to remember Her name or a Domme that encourages me to submit to Her by encouragement; letting me stretch my boundaries at my own pace?

The relationship a sub has with a Domme needs to be one of shared trust, as a newcomer to the scene i was fortunate to find an exceptional Domme to lead me by the hand, everything i had seen up until meeting Lady Sascha indicated a bias towards either financial domination or pegging and pain being inflicted on the sub in what seems tantamount to misandrony which was rather off putting and the stuff of nightmares for a novice like me. Knowing that being submissive was a concept i was comfortable with but not the kind of domination i had seen on offer, i thought i was likely to only find my D/s experience in erotic fiction.
That was until i found Lady Sascha and not in the way you’d expect, initially it was with my wide eyed innocence, that i found Her and learned that whilst offering the physical side Lady Sascha was someone who also with words rather than physical action possesses a remarkable ability to get a sub to strectch their own boundaries. Due to physical locations long distance domination by Lady Sascha is my only real option, and also allows me to avoid the rather more painful side of the scene that a real life encounter could result in. All the experiences i’ve enjoyed with Lady Sascha have been amazing.
With a subtle suggestion Lady Sascha can plant the seeds of action in a sub’s brain and get them to perform for Her as if it’s their own idea. Lady Sascha truly is a sensual Domme, her voice once heard will exist in your brain even if some of the time you only see Her words written down. Lady Sascha has even entered my dream state now. After a session that ended with a little self spanking i ended up enjoying a dream about Lady Sascha being my secretary and tying me to a chair before spanking me…

The dream

Spanked by Lady Sascha in My Dream

Lady Sascha is truly the Cocktease Extraordinaire, after a recent late night (for me) session with Lady Sascha which involved a little self spanking i dreamt of Her. In my dream Lady Sascha played my secretary dressed in the archetypal grey pencil skirt and cream blouse, Her hair tied up in a bun. As She took a little dictation in my office what i thought were discreet glances at her stocking clad legs were noticed. Without a trace of emotion in Her voice She stood up to walk around to my side of the desk telling me that i would be reported for sexual harrassment if i had a hard on and if i didn’t already i’d better have one before She left the room. Noticing my tented trousers a smile of satisfaction crossed Her face, and i knew my job was in jeopardy. “Is there anything i can do to stop You filing a complaint?”
“I suppose I could punish you Myself. Naughty boys get punished, and you are a naughty boy aren’t you?”
“Yes, Sascha, i’m a naughty boy.” i replied
“That’s LADY Sascha to you from now on, get it?”
“Yes Sas.. Lady Sascha.”
“Good, now strip!”
“Sorry?”
“If you don’t strip you will be. Now strip!”
That was a voice to be obeyed and i began to discard my clothes, my secret was about to revealed to Her, as my trousers came down Sascha barely suppressed a giggle.
“Leave those on my little panty boy and hand me your belt.”
I removed the belt from my trousers and handed it to Her, “See that chair over there go and get over it on your hands and knees.” As ordered i made my way over to the reception chair, and got down on my hands and knees with my front laid across the seat. There was the unmistakeable sound of tape being drawn off the roll. Sascha taped my arms and legs to the chair legs, telling me to open wide my leather belt was placed in my mouth the reason soon became clear, Lady Sascha pulled my panties down to expose my bottom and i heard a swish then a smack and i bit into the belt in pain. Looking back over my shoulder i saw that She was holding a wooden ruler that was swinging back towards me once more landing on my other bottom cheek. Alternating Sascha applied 6 strokes to each cheek, my bottom felt like it was on fire. Sascha reached round and grabbed my erection, “Seems panty boy enjoyed that. Do you want some more?” Shaking my head “No”
Unfortunately that is where i woke from my dream, the actual pain in my recently spanked bottom when i rolled over in my sleep had awoken me – i hope to revisit this dream very soon.

submitted by dancing pet

Once again I have made a man take total leave of his senses and do my bidding.

Here is dancing pet again, a rather intrepid soul obviously, who has put on some of his favorite panties for me:

Dancing Pet in a Pink Teddy

Dancing Pet in Panties and Nylons

Aren’t those the cutest little things? I am drooling over those panties and garter belt…

And so I sent him my “strip” video.

Here are my rules for winning a free video or picture pack from me, only this time you may send in pictures of yourself in panties, or a teddy, tights, pantyhose – any type of female lingerie.

This is what he said he looked like after viewing my strip video.

Dancing Pet in Panties

And this is what he had to say:

As a proud entrant (how proud check the 3rd pic of me in recent post reviving this contest *he is talking about pic directly above*) i selected the Strip video, it is a decision i’ll never regret. i’ve lost count of the number of times i’ve watched it one handed or otherwise. the pictures of Sascha are supreme but seeing Lady Sascha in video is something a sub’s dreams are made of.

i recieved this video by wearing lingerie & pantyhose for Lady Sascha. Watching Sascha’s sensual strip is one of the most arousing things you’ll ever see. apparently there is a music track but after dozens of views i’ve failed to be able to concentrate on anything other than what appeared on screen.

This coupled with Lady Sascha’s sensual domination audio form a brace of arousal you’ll find it hard to beat, and end up beating something hard.

Very good, dancing pet, my cock teasing charms work once again =)

Want to talk to a luscious little domme that can make you feel like that?

Call me at 1-888-734-2872. Here are my terms for a toll free phone sex call.

Remember that great scene in “Clerks” where Randal is telling Dante how his uncle died, by trying to suck his own dick?

Well as the Cock Tease Mistress, I make men suck their own cocks for me all the time, both on a phone sex call with me and in real life.
I tease them and torment them and deny them until they are so needy they will do anything for me, and then I tell them that they must “assume the position” so that they can suck their own cocks.
To be able to suck your own cock, you must:

• Be adequately endowed, that is long enough for your cock to go into your mouth.
• Limber enough to get into a shoulder stand and then put your knees around your head.
• Be thin enough that your belly doesn’t get in the way.

For my phone sex callers and subs that are not long enough to suck their own cock or not limber enough to assume the position, I instruct them to lie with their backs up against a wall and their legs hanging over their faces. This way when they shoot they will at least get a face full of cum.

Here is a picture of “Little Michael” who won my guided masturbation video last year just by sending in a picture of himself in pantyhose.

Little Michael with a Face Full of Cum

Even though he was too “little” to suck on his own cock, he was able to cum in his face, which I found to be highly amusing.

Can you suck your own cock? Or like to be instructed on how to do so?

I would love to see you on cam sucking your own cock, or at least cumming into your face.

Call Me at 1-888-734-2872. Here are my terms for a toll free phone sex call.